She is an insomniac, her mom is a tech noob and her dad is a
closet porn-viewer.
“Your laptop is confiscated” – the repeating threat her
parents tell her but never actually put into action. Every time, the outcome had
been the same. And yet, every time she still felt threatened and depressed as
if it was life itself that would be taken away from her.
For 5 years now and counting, technology and Internet slowly
became a big part of her life. It became bigger than what it should’ve been.
Taking away her laptop was like taking away her life.
It is technology and Internet that often sparks the bigger
argument between her and her parents. She would leave dinner table as soon as
she was done eating and would lock herself in her room. Family time became less
with hectic schedules and now another barrier: technology and Internet.
Internet is “bad” for studies they say. What they do not
know was it was the opposite. Communication through the Internet helped her
make the assignments and do projects on time that she was too lazy to jot down
in class. Her parents yap that she was always “chatting with friends” but what
they do not know was she was asking for help on how to solve a rather hard
equation.
She sees porno sites whenever she typed ‘p’ in her search
bar. Her dad flirts with teenage girls in Facebook, she sees. And downloads
tons of pdf files – filling her desktop.
Her mom knows Apple, thank God. She probably knows because
her daughter keeps on pestering her to buy a $1500 Mac. The only other
thing she knows about computers would probably be Facebook.
When her parents tell her “I am proud of you” because she
can make a PowerPoint, she secretly smiles. They might not seem like it, but
her parents are technology noobs.
She is now 18. She sleeps much later than 10pm. She finally
owns a Mac and her face is plastered with uncountable zits. You would probably
say Internet and Technology had a bad effect on her but no. It did not. She had
no regrets. If she were to do it all again, she’d take the same road. This
time, she would help her parents get out of the ‘technology noob’ status.
Wherever she goes, her laptop comes. It became her daily
ritual. Technology and Internet shaped her parents’ lives and hers. In her
parents’ eyes, technology is a distraction and Internet is evil – that is the
paradox of her parents lives and her own.
PS. If my parents happen to read this article, I just want to clarify that this is made-up and has no bearing in real life whatsoever.
you're soo cute :D
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